One question a day. You both answer. Then you both see.
Nearvo gives the two of you the same question each day — and neither of you can read the other's answer until you've written your own.
Nearvo · an app by Baker Ventures LLC
What it does
Answer to unlock.Neither of you can read the other's answer until you've written your own, and that rule lives in the database rather than on the screen — so nobody gets to react instead of answer.
437 questions, not 437 icebreakers.Seven categories, from fun and gratitude through to conflict and intimacy, on a depth ladder that only goes as deep as the two of you have both agreed to.
Say it out loud, if that's easier.Answer by voice as well as by text — some things don't survive being typed.
The parts of a relationship worth keeping.Memories, love notes, appreciations, important dates, a bucket list, date ideas and games — shared with exactly one person and nobody else.
Streaks that don't punish you.Miss a day and the app says so plainly: a streak "says something about a calendar, not about the two of you." There's a freeze each month, and skipping a question you don't want costs you nothing.
Private to the two of you.In the app's own words: what you write is visible to your partner and to nobody else — not to us, and not to anyone you have not paired with.
How it works
- Pair up — one of you shares a six-character code, a QR code or a link, and the other enters it.
- Answer the day's question — a couple of minutes, in text or in your own voice.
- Both answers unlock at once — react, reply, and then go and talk about it.
Questions
- Do we both need the app?
- Yes — it's built for two people who are paired. You can start on your own and use it solo in the meantime; your answers are waiting when your partner joins.
- How do we connect?
- One of you generates a six-character code, a QR code, or a link to share. The other enters it and you're paired. A code lasts 7 days and works once.
- Can my partner read everything I write?
- No. They see your answer to the daily question only once they've written their own, and a quiz result only once they've taken the same quiz. Your setup answers, your private coach conversations and your private notes are never shared with them.
- Is Nearvo therapy?
- No. Nearvo is not therapy and does not diagnose anything. It's a way to talk to each other more often and more honestly — not a substitute for a professional if you need one.
- What does it cost?
- The daily question and the reveal, pairing, your streak, your history and voice answers are free and stay free. A subscription adds the courses, the full quiz library and more coaching — and one subscription covers both of you.
- Which phones does it run on?
- Nearvo is built for iPhone.
Please note. Nearvo is for adults 18 and over. It is not therapy and does not diagnose anything, and replies from the in-app coach are written by AI, not by a person or a therapist. If you or your partner are in crisis or unsafe, please contact your local emergency number or a crisis line — safety resources are available in the app at any time, and Nearvo never reads what you write in order to decide whether to show them.
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